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[quote=Anonymous]You've asked, and he's answered. He could have a medical issue (ED, or a STD), porn addiction, or be gay.

Ask yourself how you would feel if he suggested divorce. If you can survive, then push the sex conversation. If not, then you are kinda stuck.

"Dave, we have a problem. I miss you. I miss us. There is obviously something going on since we never have sex. I want us to fix this together. If there's something I need to know, please tell me. I'm committed to finding a solution. And if there's something big you need to tell me...or if you don't think the problem can be resolved...then I need you to tell me. The bottom line is that our marriage has suffered to the point that we either commit to trying to fix it now, or we start making plans to lead separate lives."

If he flips out and tries to leave, then say this:

"I guess I have my answer. You're done...because you aren't willing to talk to me and try to work this out. I got it."

Then walk away. No sudden moves. Quietly talk to a lawyer and get your ducks in a row. Don't leave the house. Figure out what's best for you. [/quote]

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