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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am the female equivalent of you.  DH will never cheat on me and would never want to divorce for various reasons.  I used to start fights about lack of sex that resulted in intercourse but I met someone recently who solidified the encroaching indifference toward DH that I had begun to feel.  You will meet someone too.  You are not a bad husband, she is not a bad wife, but you are not good together.  The thing that gets me through is the knowledge that DH is not the last man I will ever be with, the restored confidence I have that one day I enjoy regular physical affection and passion again.  I simply don't love DH enough to sacrifice these vital aspects of myself for the rest of my life.  A decade is more than enough.  Unlike other PPs I suspect that marriage counseling will be a waste of time and money and will actually increase your frustration as neither you nor your wife are able/willing to make deep personality changes.  I believe that marriage takes work but that it should not be backbreaking labour most of the time.  If you have to threaten someone with divorce to get them to make efforts essential to your happiness then you are probably not a good match.  [/quote]

how many divorces do you currently have under your belt? I bet at least 2 if not more.[/quote]

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