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No advice, but that sounds very familiar to my situation. I've told my wife that I think the lack of sex is a problem, but she hasn't done anything noticeable to improve that aspect of our marriage. [b]I recommended a book[/b] and, when she couldn't be bothered to read it, I think that's when I kind of gave up. [/quote]

Was it the Love Languages book? I couldn't be bothered to read it either when my DH suggested it. All he wanted to do was drive home the point that "touch" is his "language" -- whatever the book would have said was my language wouldn't have mattered so I couldn't be bothered. He just wanted ammunition to use to force me to have sex.[/quote]

No. It was "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski. 
https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090

I thought it was very insightful about women's sex drives -- talking about brakes, gas, and responsive desire. I don't know whether or not it would have ultimately helped our sex life, but the fact that my wife couldn't be bothered to make even this minimal level of non-sexual effort was really hurtful to me. [/quote]

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