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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I suspect he’s bringing another woman to these couples trips you’re not invited to.[/quote]

This is why he’s panicking.

Up until now his stories of being trapped in a bad marriage provided cover for bringing his AP on the Bro trips and to hang out with the guys. The affairs also explain why two friends don’t want to see him until he gets divorced. Some people can look the other way and even become enablers, some people cant.

Still, I can imagine it wouldn’t go over well if he told the friends that he was the a$$hole and really just wanted to use them to hide his affairs. That’s why he can’t have a conversation with the friends about this. He can’t just say “Sorry guys, this got out of hand, none of the horrible things I said about Larla are true.” Then he risks someone speaking up about the affairs or at the very least refusing to cover for him. Then he has to give up the affairs and he really really doesn’t want to do that.

The biggest indicator that there’s an affair or affairs are the two friends who want nothing to do with him until he gets divorced. They don’t want to support cheating and are staying away. [/quote]

This theory makes a lot of sense, OP. I hope you'll at least consider the possibility. Perhaps as one of the two friends directly? [/quote]

I completely agree with this.  OP, your husband is boinking every bimbo he can get his paws on and his friends are sick of his crap.  That's what's put the fear of god into him, he knows his cover is going to get blown soon.  Get an STD check as soon as possible, stop sleeping with him, and demand that he come clean with his friends HIMSELF!  Guarantee he'll refuse because he knows what will happen if he does.[/quote]

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