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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH is black and does not celebrate Kwanzaa - he thinks it is a joke. [/quote] It's so strange when pull out their spouse as the absolute and final authority on all matters. It's not just you, it happens all the time on DCUM (and I'm sure on other forums and in person). "My wife is black and she said only uneducated people talk like that and any black person who says otherwise is lying..." "My husband is Mexican and he says there's no such food as _____ in all of Latin America!!!" And so on. DH and I are of 2 different cultures that are minorities in the US. When people talk about my culture, I don't post "Well I'm ___ and that's ridiculous, none of my people do that!" and when my husband's culture comes up, I don't ask for his opinion and then post it as if it's [b]the[/b] opinion. I am not the representative for everyone who looks like me and neither are your husbands and wives.[/quote]
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