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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you just assuming she wants to have your children? Have you asked her? Has the thought that she may not even want children crossed your mind? [/quote]

Op here. I was up front that I was looking for something serious because I don’t want to waste my time on a meaningless relationship. She agreed that she was also looking for the same. We are newly dating but we have discussed that we both want 2-3 kids.

I am really not crazy or pushy. I understand hard work, and her going to school was one of the things that attracted me to her.[b] I love her ambition and motivation to better herself and her life.[/b] I worked hard for my degree and in my career. I was previously dating a woman for 2 years. She cheated and left me for her high school boyfriend once he divorced his wife. I’ve been single for 2 years with minor relationships here and there. I am tired of it. I want a family to come to every night. Majority of my friends are married and having kids, and it’s lonely being the only single one. [/quote]

Actually no you don't or you wouldn't have created this  thread.   She probably looks like the wife/mother of your kids you conjured up in your dreams and that's where the attraction begins and ends.  Look, dating is all about figuring out compatibility. You want a women who will marry you within 6 months of meeting you, your current girlfriend  isn't best to move on.[/quote]

Crazy starts here. Run!
OP I'm 25, completed my education with a graduate degree (accelerated program). My career allows me to work p/t or per diem. If I met the right man (compatible, mutual attraction, etc) I would want to get married in 6 mos, be married a year or so & then try for a baby.  I want 2 or 3 so I want to start trying before 30, at the latest. 
But I don't drink, although I go to meet-up groups. On-line, if you see my age, you would not contact me, even though I have been told I'm "super cute"and "even better looking in person".  But I am not looking for sex without a serious, committed relationship so when I tell you that, you would be gone. Also  I'm from NYC, so I am well spoken, & well-travelled, but I'm also an only child, so if you have any hang ups about those, you would be out. [b] I am out here in the metro DC area but you have to keep an open mind.[/b]

But I also do not believe in putting my children in daycare.  If you are not willing to be the main financial support & treat me with respect even if I do not have an equivalent income, I'm out.[/quote][/quote]

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