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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No criticism from me.

You sound very honest, self aware, reflective, and oddly caring despite your selfishness. It’s refreshing. I think more people than you think feel like this. [/quote]

This.

Instead of thinking you are a special snowflake who feels these unique feelings, please realize that many people feel this way at some point (or always). And most people aren't medicated.

Who doesn't dream of moving to Europe and being single? Everyone has those moments.

But then we put on our big girl pants and schlep to our soul crushing job and return to our homes where we do the mundane but responsible things we need to get done for our family. That's what grown ups do.

If you want to be a selfish prick and abandon your 3 kids and the woman you married, you can do it...but given your mental health issues and obvious Beta male tendencies I promise you won't be magically happy. You are who you are, and you will feel exactly the same even if you're living single abroad. The only difference will be that everyone will hate you: your ex, your kids, your folks and your friends. They'll all think you are a crazy selfish prick.

Instead of wallowing in your misery, why not take steps to increase your happiness? And why not take steps to improve your marriage?

And here's my last ditch effort to knock some sense into you:

Who in their right mind will want to be with a mentally ill man who ditched his wife and three kids?[/quote]

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