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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To 15:40:
If your husband refuses sex and refuses  help/counseling, and you tell him you want an open marriage and he refuses, are you still a coward if you choose to have sex with someone else until the children leave the house? Is the husband who has chosen to change the parameters of the marriage and expects you to just suck it up wrong at all, or is he all clear and "charting his life in a respectful way?"[/quote]

Yes, you are still a coward. I guess if I told my husband that was my intention in order to give him the autonomy to divorce me that would be alright. Messy but if its an ultimatum then it needs to be communicated as such.

Husband is not looking good here either, none of my posts have said that the sex-withholding spouse is being a good spouse. But as I very clearly said in my previous post, two wrongs don't make a right, we learn that in kindergarten. Being a grown up is hard, just because one of you isn't charting their life respectfully doesn't mean the other spouse should join them. [/quote]

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