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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what is the custody agreement?  Does she have specific visitation days or is it open?  Is there any reason she shouldn't see her son?  If not, email her and ask if everything is ok as she seems to be dropping over a lot.  Tell her you don't mind if she wants to pick him up and take him out for a few hours as long as homework is done but please let you know 24 hours in advanced, if possible.[/quote]

Perfect answer, plus very tactful. That should be enough where she stops doing that. [/quote]

"When my son turned 16, he decided he wanted to try living with his dad. I miss him like crazy, but I felt like I had to let him go. His dad's house is along my commuting route, so sometimes I stop in and see my son. I thought it was all totally above board-kid is happy to see, his dad doesn't seem to mind, and the nanny and his kid with his new wife are right there, so it's nothing there is anything going on between us (as if-I'd stab myself in the eye before I'd go back to that). Then I get this weird passive aggressive email from my ex's new wife telling me I need to tell her (not even the kid's actual father!) 24 hours in advance if I want to see my son ("if he has his homework done"!). I get that she's really leaning in to her identity as default parent, but I don't get why she's trying to act like Ethan is her kid-usually she makes it very clear that she's only letting him live with his dad out of the kindness of her heart."[/quote]

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