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[quote=Anonymous]I learned how to ride a motorcycle at 30.  I learned to drive at 16.  At 30, I remarked how it was a good thing I learned to drive at 16.  Young and stupid is a good time to learn to drive.  You really have no idea how dangerous driving a car really is.  By the time you can recognize it, you’ve been doing it so long that it’s no big deal.

I’m on your team OP.  If you’re not comfortable driving, I don’t think you should have to.  But you also can’t inconvenience anyone else because you can’t drive.  My best friend married a blind man—he really can’t drive :).  They were in their late 20s when they married.  By then he had figured out a system of transportation that worked for him.  She would always drive if the family was going someplace.  But is perfectly capable of calling a cab or uber and stopping at the grocery store on the way home.  He has a standing car that takes him to work every day.  And on date night, he has UberLux pick then up—yes she could drive to the restaurant in their car, but this is something he does for her.

All this is my way of saying, you don’t have to drive and you shouldn’t if you don’t feel comfortable but you can’t burden others.[/quote]

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