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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Long story short, a friend has just booked a vacation at the same small resort we will be visiting this summer, at the same time as we will be there. She’s very excited (she didn’t even ask if we were interested in vacationing with her—we aren’t, this is family time.) Obviously I know I can’t control when or where people vacation, but I’m bummed. We value our family time. How do I move forward? [/quote] Is there any chance you conveyed any sort of vibe that it would be fun for them to go to the same resort while you are there? If there is not, I don't understand why you can't just convey that "that's great that you'll be there but we are having a family vacation so will be with family most of the week." Additionally, and this is just me, I fall in the "more is merrier" crowd, but I don't see why it will kill you to spend a day or an evening doing something with your friend. It's your FRIEND, not a stranger.[/quote]
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