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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I saw a couple where [b]the wife had cheated with the dad of one of their kids' soccer team mates.[/b] When asked point blank why she cheated, she stated that her husband works from 7am until 9pm every weekday and on the weekend, he goes golfing in the morning and then comes home and takes a nap. He didn't take vacations. He didn't take her on dates. He wasn't loving toward her or their children. His attitude in counseling supported those statements. [b]He was cold and angry[/b]. I understood why he was cold and angry.[b] I also understood why she was lonely.[/b] Ultimately, they divorced because while her affair definitely threw the bomb, it was like a bomb getting thrown into a condemned building. There was nothing left to fix. [b]I didn't know why they came to counseling at all, honestly.[/b][/quote] Wow! This can't be real. Let's break this down. They came into counseling and they unload this on you. I think that we can all agree that this was a pretty horrible offense. I, for one, would probably ask him why is he is in my office because that's a lot to deal with. I would be honest and tell them that there's probably not much I could do for them. It will just prolong the pain of the spouse. You, however, give the wife an opening to manipulate the situation and keep the money ball rolling. [/quote]
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