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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I understand your concern.  But you are wrong.  And, you will need to change your overall attitude if you want this relationship to work.

I have children.  My boyfriend has children.  We are both going through divorces.  There is a spectrum of how they are dealt with, and we fall on extreme opposite ends.  His is awful, with lawyers and parent coordinators and zero trust on any side.  Mine is being handled completely amicably and with complete trust.  My ex and I were married for 18 years. It is very clear that we shouldn't be together any more.  But we know each other extremely well, and neither of us has the slightest reason to not trust the other, especially with regard to finances.  I have absolutely no reason to think that I would ever need to completely cut him off from any of my accounts.  Our goal is always to get to the right conclusion in the fastest and most fair way, with us both looking towards fairness from both sides.  It sounds like your boyfriend is in a similar situation.  Be extremely grateful and either accept that as a very huge positive sign or GTFO of their situation before you ruin it.[/quote]

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