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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I didn't embellish anything, and I am certainly not a troll. This is a real situation. Unfortunately, I was stupid and naive. I acted on my urges and now I find myself in an untenable situation.

I'm not looking to marry her. I don't like her. I don't have genuine feelings for her anymore. I did for a brief second. She's smart and she's funny. She's highly respected and very kind. I guess it was more of a schoolboy crush in this instance. Maybe she knew I wouldn't say no if she made a move.

Over the past month, it went from exciting to stressful whenever we'd meet up. She's complaining more about her husband. She asks probing questions about my weekends and free time, wanting to know where I am at all times.

Maybe it is a midlife crisis. I understand I'm an idiot for getting involved. I've lost a lot of sleep over this. I haven't told anyone besides my brother, who called me an idiot.

I'm trying to remain positive, but I think i'll have to leave the firm eventually, but I hope she doesn't find out until i'm gone. I am also not going to expose her or blackmail her. I don't dislike her. [/quote]

Stop the sex immediately. You're best bet is when she pressures you next let her know you want to remain friends. Soften it as much as you can.  Heck tell her you met someone and you know she is the type of person that would be happy for you.  And stop putting yourself in positions where you  have private conversations or moments with her.
OP you'll feel better once you do this. Certainly don't take some of the idiots responses on here.  You need to correct this right away.[/quote]

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