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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP...you're 'off' and so is your husband...hence the dysfunction in your marriage.

FWIW...I love foreplay, intimacy, playful fun outside the bedroom, making love and raw energetic drive each other wild sex...and I will cuddle...but I have never been much of a fan for a lot of cuddling, especially at bedtime, nor can I fall asleep while entwined. [/quote]

You like sex outside the bedroom/don't like cuddling- that's you. That's not OP and millions of other people. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex in your bed regularly and being able to relax  afterwards with your partner. That's not going to happen if the kids are sleeping in the same bed.
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Change bed! In most houses with kids you have at least two bedrooms. If the couch is too adventurous, just use the spare room. What is SO difficult and inconvenient about this... I don’t get it. How can using a different room for sex and intimacy or sleep with the kids ruin a marriage?[/quote]

Because in a lot of these marriages, the sex life is holding on by the slimmest of threads. Before she wants to have sex, mom has to have had "me" time, not have been touched too much, all the chores must be done, nobody must have said a cross word, there has to be a 'connection,' and the wind must be blowing from the south on the night of a crescent moon. Co-sleeping adds a big wrinkle that makes the chances of the random factors aligning properly that much more unlikely. [/quote]

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