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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, you sound like a real piece of work. You lie in order to get a job, mess up badly in the job, make a bunch of trouble when she fires you, the issues involve her children, she's simply reporting the truth to try to warn other people about your character so they don't make the same mistake, and.... you're looking for sympathy from us? Seriously? You know this is a parenting website, right?

It sounds like what she's doing is giving you an honest review, and making it public. She is absolutely allowed to do that. She's actually allowed to do that even WITHOUT proof, if she prefaces the thing saying it's her experience and her opinion and has any reasonable reasons to write what she wrote. But with proof? And now you're seriously thinking about trying to make up some random lies about her to try to coerce her into taking down her TRUTHFUL account of her experience with your services? That will be the next thing on her page about you, and I'm sure employers will love to read about that latest installment in your lack of personal character.

There's nothing you can do. Nothing. Except maybe try to use the experience to be a better person. Maybe one day in a few years when you've genuinely changed, you can write her a heartfelt apology. And maybe she'll take pity on you and take it down. But newsflash: you're a long way from that point, since there's no actual remorse from your side at all and only vile entitlement.

SHM.[/quote]

+1.  I think the blog post suggested above will make you sound self-absorbed and like you lack any insight into how bad your past actions were.  We had a former nanny that lied about a bunch of stuff.  I didn't post anything online about her, but I sure as heck hope no one else got taken in by her and hired her to watch their kids.

Also, if you are posting a site about her (even if it contains true information) as leverage to try to get her to stop doing something that will benefit you, that could be viewed as blackmail or extortion.  For instance, if Ben Affleck's old nanny said that she was going to post a blog post about their affair unless he bought her a big diamond ring, that would be blackmail (even if the blog post was true).  [/quote]

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