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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you know why she doesn’t want to be on birth control? Have you suggested an iud, which is much less cumbersome, generally comes with fewer undesirable side effects, and does not increase the risk of blood clots, which, as a previous poster mentioned, is a legitimate concern. [/quote]

OMG don't give a 15-year-old an IUD. Jesus. Why would you put her through that?[/quote]

NP. It’s not a traumatic event ffs. Quit being such a drama queen. Would you rather she be unreliable with the pill or condoms and get pregnant? Why would you put her through that?

I would definitely not force her onto birth control. That’s insane. It’s her body. But a good compromise would be waiting until she’s ready then choosing a method more foolproof than the pill, which would include IUDs. [b]It sounds like OP is concerned about the habits and consistency needed for the pill[/b], and the IUD would eliminate the oops factor. [/quote]

Er, no. [b]Where did you get that? [/b]It sounds to me like OP is concerned with her daughter has a brain and is saying that she doesn't want to put some unnecessary drug into her body for no reason, also probably doesn't enjoy discussing her sex life with her mother, and probably also doesn't enjoy trying to convince her mother that she isn't a skank like her older sisters and that her mother should leave her alone to be a 15 year old girl.[/quote]

The second sentence of the OP.

So young women who use birth control are skanks? Way to judge, misogynist. [/quote]

We're not talking about young women wanting to sleep with someone they're in a long term relationship with and care about.

In this case, the sisters didn't have boyfriends, they were just on birth control in case they "suddenly changed their mind" as the OP said and decided to screw a random guy at a party or whatever. OP's DD said that she doesn't have a boyfriend, OP believes her but doesn't believe her that she won't screw someone anyway, just like her sisters.

And 15 year old girls who use birth control so they can screw random guys who they aren't even in relationships with are skanks, yes. It's pretty much the definition, in fact.[/quote]

Your misogyny is showing. She didn’t say her daughters are screwing random guys at parties. You’re slut shaming teenagers for using protection. What OP said about changing her mind is that while dd plans not to have sex, sometimes people get caught up in the moment and change their minds, and she doesn’t want her dd to be unprotected if that happens.

Quite frankly, that’s why abstinence only programs don’t work, because kids think they’ll have the willpower to say no and they don’t have a backup plan. Then they have unwanted pregnancies and STIs. [/quote]

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