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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is the exact version of my wife who I *thought* I had married, minus DW's 40 pound weight gain and total loss of any sex drive.  Seriously, I was raised with values and integrity. Never once cheated on any prior girlfriends/relationships, never thought I could EVER go there. But words can't describe how draining it is to be sexually pursuing a wife who is both uninterested and unattractively overweight.  Then, enter the new girl who looks/acts just like the sexy DW you dated. Sparks fly and all my morals left the building.[/quote]

Wow, you're such a victim. [/quote]

Agreed, and easily proven. I treat my wife very well, even better than we first met. I treat my wife significantly better (1000X) than my other woman. And yet, my wife no longer feels any sexual desire for me. Clearly this is not a result of how I treat her.

I look pretty good now, about the same as when I met my wife (extrapolated out 15 years). Same height, same weight, same penis size, etc. And my appearance is identical for both my wife and this other woman. Again, clearly, the sexual attraction is not a result of how I look.

My sexual skills now are better than when I met my wife. I am attentive and enjoy my partner's pleasure. This is evident by the fact this other woman keeps coming (literally) back for more. Clearly, my abilities in bed are not at fault.

As to my wife's weight gain, clearly this too has nothing to do with me: I do not put extra food on her plate. She has a gym membership and freedom to work out 7 days/week.

So Yes, I am a victim of my wife's decision to abdicate the role of being my attractive sexual partner. And yes, this has allowed me to justify finding (rather easily) somebody else to fill this role.
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