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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel for you.  What kind of help is he getting?  He needs more help ASAP than you are able to provide for him.

I would suggest calling the suicide prevention hotline.  They will help you figure out what to do next.  [/quote]

He’s sleeping right now after essentially being up for over 24 hours.  [/quote]

I’d call ASAP tomorrow morning.  I’d personally take him to iNova iPAC, they’re open.  If you can’t get him up take him tomorrow morning.  I’ve been in his boat, it’s a tough thing.  Ironically, for guys it stinks because we’re on our own.  [b]Wives/GFs will dump you off at the first sign of trouble like this as they don’t want to take the responsibility of dealing with it.[/b][/quote]

You got that right! Why should we want to or have to deal with someone unstable like that? I m single, and if I were in a relationship with a suicidal man, I would end it ASAP and not look back. I am NOT a therapist, and it is not my role to play one in a relationship. Someone trying to kill themselves is not my problem or responsibility. Grown people are responsible for themselves.[/quote]

That’s why you’re single, incapable of thinking of anyone but yourself.  Have fun being dying alone [/quote]

She is thinking of herself. Rightly so. If a woman doesn't look out for herself nobody else will. And she is also thinking of future children (and finances. and animals. and jobs, etc. etc.) Life gets more difficult, there is no reason at all to deliberately handicap yourself with a husband with mental illness before you have children. You need a partner, not a 2nd job.[/quote]

That's fine (sort of) for casual friends-with-benefits, but I'm not sure why you would bother getting married or be in a long term relationship if you are just going to dump someone when the going gets rough. If know that deep-down, you're a lone wolf, don't make a commitment to someone that you are unable, or unwilling, to keep. [/quote]

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