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Reply to "Given the number of deadbeat dads, why don't you get wages garnished from the beginning?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, I receive $800/mo in support. My mortgage payment per month is more than that. That's what I use support on. Accounted for. Done. Is that what you're looking for? I'm also reimbursed for childcare and extra curriculars. That money has been accounted for too. We're done now right? Is that what you're looking for?[/quote] I think you are missing the larger point (which has been made several times in this thread). If we don't trust people to pay their child support, then we garnish their wages. If we don't trust people to use child support for their children, we require them to account for how the child support money is spent. Some people in this thread have stated that wage garnishment is a part of their agreement/support order, and that it works fine for them. In my husband's case there is no support order and he and his ex have made their own arrangement and that works fine for them. Some of us don't feel that wage garnishment or child support accounting should be implemented across the board--it should be done only if the adults in question want it done, or in cases where the trust has been breached by non payment or misuse of child support funds. [/quote]
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