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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, most people don't plan their own baby showers - they ought to be thrown by friends or family.  If she gave them a list, she might have forgotten to include you on it.  I find it a little odd that you have a "good friend" who was having a baby shower but the topic never came up...do you talk or text often?  Do you live near each other?  I can't imagine if one of my good friends was having a baby shower that it wouldn't have been something we'd talk about beforehand, unless it was a surprise, in which case the host is the one who left you off.  Also, you didn't state how close in time the FB post was to the shower.  Some people post pictures while they're actually at an event, in which case she literally didn't have time to apologize.  I'd forgive and forget, because life is too short for grudges, but I would also realize that maybe you two aren't as close as you once were.  If that upsets you, try to rekindle your friendship.  If she doesn't reciprocate, then the baby shower is a red herring and the reality is you've just grown apart.[/quote] We talk every couple weeks and text about the same. We do live near each other but I haven't talked to her in like 3.5 weeks at least because I went out of town and then when we got back things were hectic with the holidays approaching. Entirely possible the party was planned in November when we didn't talk much. This is her first baby and I already have a child. -OP[/quote]

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