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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk to your husband and explain you'd like your first time to be special.

Clear your schedule for Saturday.  Make reservations at a nice place for dinner.  Don't fight all day Friday or Saturday (even if you feel justified).  Dress up and don't eat/drink too much (otherwise you'll complain you're drunk or bloated).  Have a nice romantic dinner and try to remember why you married the guy in the first place (hopefully out of love?).

Come home, get it on.  If you don't enjoy it, don't tell him immediately (good way to guarantee it doesn't happen again soon).  If you do like it, woohoo!  Problem solved.[/quote]

I want to enjoy it and have fun! We’ve waited so long! Yes I’m scared but that’s not what’s holding me back.

We never got a honeymoon. I just want to go away somewhere or have a day where we can relax just be together and warm up to it.

With full time work, commutes,stress etc, it’s hard for me mentally to want to get it on at 10 pm on a Wednesday for the first time. 
M[/quote]

What do I know; I had sex at 15. But it seems to me that you have built this up to be HUGE, and of course you're having a hard time actually doing it.

Do you actually want to have sex? Do you want to be made to feel special, and feel that sex is your husband's reward for pulling that off? If the latter, can you just be open and honest with him about that - say, baby, I've never had sex and am feeling a little nervous about all this; it'd make me feel more excited and less scared if you wined me and dined me a little bit beforehand. Humor me![/quote]

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