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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would pick something that you want to get done that is not too expensive. Maybe just renovate 1 bathroom rather than all of them. Don’t ask for his blessing. Just get it done. He will most likely love it once it is done. My husband never wants to spend on anything for the house either. However we are equal partners and sometimes I just ignore him. He fusses but every time, once the work is finished, he is so glad it was done, especially when friends and family come over and love the improvements. This means that I do absolutely everything that has to do with the project- pick the contractor, get estimates, pick the tile, supervise the work but I’m ok with that as I know that means the work will get done. I wish I had a partner in this but I don’t. It is ok though as he is helpful and a partner in many other ways. You can’t have everything. [/quote]

My husband's mission in life is to monitor my spending. Sometimes I'm more responsible than other times but I know in my heart I'm not out of control. Just go ahead every once in a while. Are you giving in other areas of your life to him?[/quote]

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