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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Best revenge I ever got was actually my ex’s revenge that backfired on her.

We divorced and we shared custody.  She would bad mouth me to the kids.  Flake out on drop-offs.  She tried to do things to sabotage my relationships with my kids – telling me that event/game times had changed.  Hauled me into court at every turn. Very similar to what PP did.  It is irrelevant here but, on the advice of my lawyer, I saved and documented EVERYTHING and formalized every communication.  Kids got older and openly questioned why the math was not adding up – things she was saying about me were not the same things they saw.  Still, I never said a bad word about her to them.  Just did the best I could. Final straw was she lost her mind when my oldest DD (who was a teen) accused her of manipulating her relationship with me. They had a big blow up and, although they have made peace, their relationship has been changed forever.  She now sees her mom differently.  They all do.

Moral of the story:  Move on and try to find happiness.  Revenge is not all is cracked up to be and can bite you in the behind if you are not careful.
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I don't understand how this plays out in practice.  When the kids are older do you just pull out a binder full of e-mails and texts and let them read through them?  I'm not in this situation so I can't relate to how kids think but it just seems like it would be weird having them read historical information and connecting all the dots.  Like, her telling you that the time of an event changed so you missed it.  Just seems like an older kid wouldn't remember that specific event and what time it was or whatever.  [/quote]

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