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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Recently met a man who explained his situation as " I live in the city because I work a lot . . . kids live in the country with my their mom." I didn't ask questions. Very well know in his field. I suspect the mom doesn't ask questions either.[/quote]\

in other words, they have an arrangement, not a loving marriage[/quote]

Very common in these situations.[/quote]

How do you know it's very common? Do you know many personally...?[/quote]

I do. Also, this thread...[/quote]

Well, dish! We want to hear the stories.[/quote]

There are a couple of us responding on this thread. I think the "I do" poster is a man. I am the person who posted the original message. I cannot dish any in details. For him, I am very different than the "mom in the country." I am very transparent, and very honest. He can trust me. He is very dominant and I do not mind. My day job consists of me being a deadline-driven leader. When he corresponds, there are no games.[b] I wait, he doesn't[/b]. It's not about money, I have my own. I say "Yes" more than anything and he has always had my best interest in mind. When we are together he loves to hear me talk as much as he talks. Intimately, he is a pleaser, so everything is great on that end.

I am very fit, tall, better than average looks, educated, and very outgoing. I am a African American, he is not. If he asks a question, I reply honestly. He says that he is comfortable with me. When a man travels in those circles, it is important to be honest, open and transparent because it is not something they get from their day job.[/quote]

So you are the second wife? Or his secretary?[/quote]

No, I am neither. [/quote]

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