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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not say a word. Not your business. At all.[/quote] This. Shocked at the amount of people who would say something. Totally not your place.[/quote] How is it not her place? Every single one of you would readily inform an AP's spouse to get revenge. But having one tell you your own spouse is doodly-dooing around on you is a no-go?[/quote] So everyone maintains this jackhole's code of silence? No. Like most women, she'd want to know. To decide for herself whether this is a deal breaker, to get herself tested for STDs, to get her ducks in a row so she isn't blindsided one day when he waltzes in and announces he wants a divorce and is moving out. It's a crappy situation to be in, no doubt OP. But to put it another way, are you going to be a bystander to this disaster in progress or are you going to help the woman who is likely a victim? And yes, even if it's a bad/sexless/cold marriage, she is still the victim unless she has sanctioned his promiscuity (which is highly unlikely). How will you feel if you DON'T tell her and the cheating jerk uses this time to screw her over financially or gets another woman pregnant or something? [/quote]
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