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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I grew up in a hypercritical family, and it was normal to point out mistakes in this way. I did it myself for a long time, and couldn't understand why people reacted so negatively, since otherwise I'm a nice and kind person, not judgmental. I had to relearn how to deal with people to get better effort from them, and how to point out a mistake in a neutral way. [b] Always say things in a way that lets people save face and doesn't point fingers. Even if it's obviously their mistake, make it a neutral issue that the two of you deal with as a team, using each of your strengths to complement each other. It's amazing how well that works in getting people to do better. [/b] [/quote] +1. Great story.[/quote]
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