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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Well I thought people may be more supportive, I guess not.

It’s very hurtful to have someone completely uninterested in spending any time with my family. He tells me he wants children and his interest will shift when he has his own child, and maybe he will be more interested in spending time with my family then.

A couple days have blown over since our last discussion about this, I asked him if he wanted to visit my niece to see her in his Halloween costume to which he said flat out “No.”

No explanation. Nothing. He’d rather sit on the couch and be anti-social all the time. I told him I was upset about this, and he told me I was free to go. To which he followed up with this giant bomb:

“If you wanted or expected me to want to spend as much time with your family as you do, you shouldn’t have married me.”

Now we’re not speaking. [/quote]

Op, your expectations are not reasonable.   You married your husband. He is your primary family now, not your parents or siblings.  Consider some marriage counseling.  DCUM can be a very negative place sometimes, but trust us when we say that you are expecting too much from your dh, and you are not being reasonable here.  [/quote]

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