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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why doesn't anyone trust their teens. I have a junior and she is perfectly capable of judging whether a situation is safe, legal, and smart, and knows how to deal accordingly. At what age are you all going to finally start expecting your kids to be responsible and allowing them to do so. [/quote]

Trust but verify.  No teen has fully-developed judgment and all teens are influenced by peers.  No teen has sufficient life experience to navigate every tough situation well.

This is my script:  "Hi, Jane?  This is Larla's mom, and I understand from her that your DD Susy is having a party on Saturday.  Thanks so much for hosting!  I'm just calling to check in and make sure that you and/or your husband will be home while the kids are there.  Also, can Larla contribute anything?  I'd be happy to make some brownies to send with her."

I don't care if my teen is embarrassed.  My job is to keep her safe.  So far, mission accomplished.[/quote]

This is great - I totally agree with this. What I don't understand (I have seen it - in the most judgy area you would expect) are the moms (dads too) who are hell bent on judging other parents and other children.  As if they know their child is prone to issues, and they re trying to head off any blame.  Well gee, since you judged first - any idea why your child is prone to trouble?  Maybe because you try to parent other people more than you pay attention in your own home.  [/quote]

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