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[quote=Anonymous]To OP: I know how you feel and I am in the same boat. Three kids, rocky marriage, some ups and many long downs that leaves us exahusted and resentful. But thru all of that, my kids adore their dad. He is a good man, a great dad...but sucks as a husband. I decided to divorce him...just a few weeks back, thinking i have a right to feel love and passion, right?, I think we are just not for each other...but then I think of our kids, and we do have a stable family, most fights happen at night etc. The kids see that our marriage is not perfect...and but then they sometimes ask but mom, you guys fight but love each other right? you willNOT divorce? they ask this...
the bigger problem for us is that I am European and he is US. if i divorce him, I want to live back in Europe, he was the only reason for me to move to the US ...I never came here b/c of a true desire to live here. He would never live in my country b/c of language. So if we divorce one of us has to live in country they dont want to be in...adding another level of complexity. sigh
if he was a jerk, divorce would be easier. but alas, he is a decent guy. we went to counseling, tried...but the long and deep downs always come back and suck all happiness out. and then it improves for a bit...[/quote]

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