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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]yeah, clearly, it's an excellent idea to REGULARLY sit down a ten-year old and say, you see, daddy and I are living an atypical, unhealthy, less than ideal marriage - all for you! Make sure yours isn't like that!  That'll fix them.

Morons.

OP, there is nothing wrong or atypical in your marriage.  Most people married for 15+ years are there.  If you are amiable roommates, you are way ahead of the population.  If there is no strife or abuse at the house, if you function well as a family, if you are providing a stable happy home for your children, then [b]what else can you possibly wish for?[/b] Do you think that there are dozens of Fabios waiting outside your door simply DYING to discover a passionate connection with a 40+ mother of three?  What are you going to tell the kids? Daddy was nice to me but I left him because no butterflies?

Wake up.  Find a way to connect with your DH.  Or don't. What you have doesn't sound so bad. [/quote]

Sex would be nice. But I'd settle for affection. Not getting either right now. But then I look at our children, and the idea of divorce - which would hurt them - hurts like hell. No good choices here. It is going to suck either way.

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So go and give your DH a kiss. Sit next to him. Hold his hand. What are you waiting for, an affection package in the mail?[/quote]

+1 .  What happens when you try this?[/quote]

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