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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks everyone. Yea, I know he is being ridiculous. He thinks that if we divorce, he'll get full custody and his mom will leave her spouse, job, and life to come live with him and help out :roll:

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Tell him fine he can have full custody.  Tell him he can start tomorrow and he needs to do 100% of everything or have mom get there asap.  He'll need to hire a nanny if he is on call weekends and other times.  Tell him he will need to do 100% of the cooking, cleaning, shopping, child care, pay bills and everything else you do.  Tell him he has one week where you will taper off support and then he's on his own.  Let him replace everything you do and see how easy it is if he wants full custody and cannot even take the kids to day care.  Enjoy your free time.

It really depends on his career.  If he is a doctor, and might have to go in, then yes, having a back up on the weekend is important.  But, he can drop off the kids and just get up a little earlier.  But, if you are talking divorce, it makes sense to get a job.

Good luck.[/quote]

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