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OP here. Bumping this for thoughts on what to do this year. I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I had a run in with this man at a wedding recently and it was bad. He followed me around all night and kept trying to get near me when I was on the dance floor. Ruined my night. The worst part was that I was seated next to him at dinner. I cried when I realized that and I didn't eat my meal or sit down other than for toasts all night. I am sick of spending my Christmas's with him. My inlaws have been hosting this party for 20+ years and they don't send invites, so they can't not invite him. It's an open house Christmas party. I get irrationally upset at his wife too for letting this go on and not seeing it. His wife has a degenerative illness. I have a feeling that my MIL would think I'm overreacting, and maybe I am. But this man ruins Christmas for me every year. I hate how upset and how stressed I feel every time I hear his voice.

A. Tell my inlaws we won't be coming for Christmas as long as Chester the molester shows up. But not coming for Christmas Eve, means we aren't coming for Christmas.

B. Do not allow him to hug me or kiss me on my cheek (he tries). Loudly yell if he gets too close. But it's a small party of less than 15 people. Because I only see this man on big celebrations like Christmas or a family wedding, I feel like I can't speak up because I don't want to ruin someone else's wedding or holiday. If it happened in a bar, I have no trouble telling men no. [/quote]

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