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[quote=Anonymous]This is such an effing depressing thread.

OP you just need to find a decent guy. I have PCOS. I am 5'3 and weigh 195. I weighed 208 when I got pregnant with my first baby. I lost 10 pounds and got pregnant with my second baby at 198. I am 2.5 months post partum.

So:

1) Somehow I managed to get someone to have sex with me even though I'm fat (although I wear a size 14/16 so I'm average).

2) I didn't have many problems finding guys to date prior to dating my DH.

3) You are not guaranteed to get super fat after having babies, for me, the pregnancies seem to have reset some of the hormonal problems and are making it easier for me  to lose weight for the first time in my entire life.

4) My husband has enjoyed sex with me when I weighed 175 when we started dating, when he impregnated me at 208, when I was pregnant and even today with my belly that has two c section scars. A real man loves you for you and understands life is a long road.

5) You can be healthy and happy even if you end up regaining the weight after a pregnancy. I am on day 7 of the 30 day shred about 10 weeks post partum. It got me back in shape after baby #1 too. I can complete the whole workout without a break despite being a giant fat lazy person. When I'm done I'll be back to running 5ks and doing spin classes and headstands in yoga. With my low blood pressure and general good health to boot. I manage all these things despite my weight.

6) Love yourself. Take life as it comes. Prioritize your health and keep an eye on your weight but don't allow it to determine your value. And DON'T listen to a bunch of anonymous sex starved idiots in sh*#&y marriages telling you you're too fat to attract a guy. You don't want a relationship like the ones that half the people who post in this forum have. So remember that when you're listening to them putting a value judgement on your body.[/quote]

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