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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kept my name and it was never an issue with dh.  However, I think women should do what they're comfortable with and I have no problem with women changing their names.  But whether this is something you can do in order to avoid a conflict and still be happy down the road is something I can't really determine since I don't know you.  But I will say this.  There are times when marriage is hard - especially in that period where you have small children and new careers and limited income.  (Been there.  Done that.) At times like that having shared values is really important in keeping you together.  I wonder if he is the right one for you.

Good luck in sorting this out, OP!  Let us know how it works out![/quote]

I totally agree with the above.

I'm the opposite, though - I changed my name.  However, I had always hated my maiden name, and my DH has an AWESOME last name.  It's cool, it's strong, it's simple, and not very common.  Seriously, people comment regularly on what an awesome last name it is.  :lol:

I think it's very telling that when the rubber hits the road, your fiance now has a problem with something you told him from the beginning.  Either he wasn't honest in the beginning about his feelings, or he is looking for an out.  I agree with the couples counseling to suss out which it is.

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