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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oops, didn’t see that you double posted. Copying my reply from the other thread.

Can you legally change it and continue to use your maiden name professionally since that appears to be your concern? I have a co-worker who’s done this for a decade and it’s perfectly fine. Her email and everything is still her maiden name.

I used to feel like you do when I got married and I think my XH was a little slighted by it but never said much about it. Looking back, now that I’m divorced from him, I often wonder if the fact that I didn’t want to change it was a subconscious sign that we weren’t meant to be together and I was settling because he was a great guy and looked good on paper. I’m engaged again and getting married next year and honestly, I can’t wait to change my name this time. I’m so proud of my fiancé and happy to share the same name with him.

Just my opinion and food for thought.[/quote]

No, it was not a subconscious sign.  Lots of people don't take their husband's name and are happily married.  Like me![/quote]

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