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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry you're going through such a messy situation with your soon-to-be EX. I remember going through my divorce and the firsts of everything (birthdays, holidays, etc) were so hard to know what to do, how to handle and finally get through without falling apart. It's a grieving process that will get better with time. I agree what he (or they) did wasn't right, especially if you had already discussed doing it at a neutral place. Just sucky all around. With that being said, go to the party at your EX's girlfriend's house for your son. Be nice...but don't be fake. Your attitude should make everyone wonder why he let you go. In this situation, as hard as it will be, especially considering the ensuing custody battle, be the bigger person and extend a hand of grace so you have nothing to be ashamed of. After you get through this party, have it put it into writing that you will alternate birthdays (and next year will be yours), and always invite him to the party you throw for your son even if he doesn't come and you don't get invites to his. It's the RIGHT thing to do and your son will benefit from seeing your example of being the bigger person. Hang in there and God bless you and your son!!![/quote]

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