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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm closer to 50.  I have had an affair with my "love of my life" from age 21 for the past 7 years.  He left his wife and kids for me.  I came down with cancer and stayed with my husband for health care reasons.  I have 4 children.  I am now a month away from getting divorced and my affair partner for 7 years just broke it off with me.  I am in the process of selling my house, uprooting my children, I carry the letter "A" around my neck (figuratively) in this neighborhood, for what?  My affair partner told me that his kids would not accept me (he disclosed me to his wife-who in turn told the kids) and he needed to choose them over me.

I still have a couple of years of cancer treatment to go through, I will have no house soon and have 4 kids.  He said he needed them to feel as if they were a priority.

I still love him.  I can't go back to my husband-we have both moved on emotionally-Any suggestions?  Has anyone had to deal with this?  I am broken hearted[/quote]

Buck up. I'm sorry about your health issues, I'm sorry about your AP breaking it off with you. I am divorced and I love my second partner, [b]however I do regret my second family and blending the kids.   Knowing what I know now, I would never do it again. [/b][/quote]

Could you elaborate on that?[/quote]

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