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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think lawyers are pretty much farting around all day and night driving up clients bills. No way do they have to work 14-16 hour days and all that time they're actually putting their nose to the grindstone. Your husband is making it seem like his job is so important that he can't ever be around, but it's not true. He's avoiding being a parent and a husband. Call him out or take control of your life. [/quote]

Really? When my husband is working a ton of hours he is usually writing. When is the last time you wrote a 30 page single page brief in 2 days?? Probably not lately. [/quote]

Op here. Exactly. My husband does international law and his clients are big names. At least 4 mergers that he has worked on directly have been in the news. He is definitely not “farting around”. When he is home working he is also writing like pp said. Constant writing. I’m sure there are lawyers that waste time and have that luxury.

And he is definitely not avoiding. When we actually take vacations, have the rare family time etc... he is all in. And he is a very good man and a loving husband/father. Unfortunately we just don’t have a normal amount of time together.[/quote]

You're a saint. Neither my husband nor I wanted to work that much, so we both got jobs that allowed us to be home for dinner every night and not work at home. Of course, we live in a four bedroom three bath house worth less than a million dollars. Many families want the huge mortgage and house.[/quote]

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