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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am sorry OP.

Before my first child was born, I received invaluable advice -- if I delegated childcare I had to let  some decisions go.  That was for a nanny and it has served me well - my nanny has been amazing and knows she has my respect because I don't micromanage.

But it could apply to you too, and perhaps more so. your husband is too busy to meet a babysitter and you desperately need one. So he needs to trust you.  Likewise with all the other decisions you make. He  needs  to see this and give you the room to do things that are best for the whole family. If he can't be mature about this a reckoning must be in order or he needs to be home enough to not make these decisions and responsibilities yours alone.  Best of luck to you.  As for another child I think that is dependent l chest ylucss t and his ability to see this point and more generally respect youcs d your needs. [/quote]

How would he even know you hired a sitter? He's never around and I assume you would pay her.[/quote]

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