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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's completely fine OP. I've seen it happen many times. Sometimes my kids are among the kids invited to sleep over, sometimes not. LIFE IS NOT ALL ABOUT FAIRNESS! Kids need to learn that sometimes they are included, sometimes they're not. There is a crazy amount of helicoptering that goes on in DCUM regardless structuring kids' lives so they are never excluded from anything and never get their feed less than super special. Honestly, it is much better for your kids to realize from an early age that they're not invited to everything. [/quote] There is a massive difference between inviting 4 friends out to dinner and not inviting other people, but to invite everyone but only select a few to stay is absolutely unkind and hurtful. It would be like inviting 4 people to dinner but only asking two to stay for dessert. That you don't see that is astounding. I mean this is manners 101. [/quote]
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