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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]By not inviting her you'll make her feel even more insecure and paranoid. And she'll have something real to base her feelings on. Things will get worse.

Talk to her but invite her. I think not inviting her is too extreme and hurtful.[/quote]
If someone feels insecure and paranoid after being invited to something, simply because they were met there instead of driven there, the problem lies with themselves. Not others. No number of invitations will change that. Obviously.[/quote]
I should add, it's like this:

My friends Jill and Jane and me makeplans to go to the movies, and agree to meet there. But for some reason, Jill and Jane took the same car and didn't invite me along in the car with them. Then me starting a fight with Jill and Jane at the ticket counter, and pouting into my popcorn and ignoring them all the way to our seats. Then Jane asks me what my problem is, and I cry in front of everyone in the theater. Because of a car ride. Because they TOTALLY EXCLUDED me and I'm paranoid and anxious that Jane likes Jill more than me and I won't see them anymore.

If you can tell me THAT is normal, appropriate behavior, I will shut up.[/quote]

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