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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks to those who responded without judgement. I see some people were exceedingly forcused on the word "let", however I said "agree to let" because there must obviously be a discussion with something like this that impacts the family. [b]And the two options are mutually exclusive, either I agree to the request or disagree.[/b] Some of you also may need to examine your own gender biases, because I was referring to my DH's request. I did not initially state this because for me, the gender of the spouse is irrelevant, and either a wife or husband have the option to request to stay home, or neither do. Lastly, for those responders who question the probability of such a pay raise, think going from academia to industry. [/quote] Those are only the options for your mind. You can disagree and the other person will get himself fired. You can disagree and get total resentment back, where the other person would stay at work till midnight. It's not like youh get the last word[/quote]
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