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[quote=Anonymous]It was gradual where I had an inkling early on but I needed time to make sure.  We were exclusive after 3 months of dating.  I remember going on a trip with my friends overseas probably 4 months into the relationship and the last night this cute guy was putting on the hard court press.   I hadn't fallen in love with my DH at that point but I knew he had potential to be the one and I didn't want to mess that up or have a guiltily conscience.

So while no one before that had even made it to potential, it took me almost 2 years to go from potential to absolutely sure.  It's like, the little red engine where I'm thinking I think I can, I think I can and then finally I realize I'm doing it. I had to know we could communicate when we disagreed (and we had to work few a few things) and we could spend time together including being snowed in and taking vacations and still coming out happy with each other.  Something clicked one day and suddenly I had faith in our relationship and it's ability to evolve.  While I agree with people that there isn't necessarily just one person for you, now that we've been together almost 20 years, I can't imagine how anyone else would fit me as well as my DH.[/quote]

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