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[quote=Anonymous][quote=taketothebank]The logix is still flawed.

Contact during a relationship is not relevant since contacting each other is what relationship is about.  [b]Contact after a relationship is over is different because the prior relationship is concluded.

Any new contact is the beginning of a new relationship or the beginning of a different type of relationship[/b] (i.e., we became friends after we broke up).

Saying "I would not have a problem contacting my ex but do not because I do not want to" is circular reasoning.

The most useful post is one noting that men often contact former lovers to have sex again.  He called me to get laid makes so much more sense than he called be because I was the one that got away.

Do many of your friends call former lovers to have sex with them?  How many have been called by a past sexual partner seeking to have sex again?[/quote]

Utterly and completely absurd.  The only time when it's the "man contact firsts rule" is at the very, very beginning of a relationship.  Once you've slept together and seen each other sleep and sleep deprived and every side of each other it would be patently ridiculous for a woman to be sitting by the phone waiting for the man she likes to call.  She'd reach out.  And I also know, from speaking to my female friends, that if they WANTED to reach out, they would.  No one expects courtship rituals after you've dated and been that intimate. [/quote]

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