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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I recently presented some research results about my company's "African American" customers to a team with a lot of Black people on it. In the research I referred to "African Amercians" and they told me "Black" is actually the preferred term. So I use that now. I'm sure at some point I'll be told that's wrong and it needs to be switched to some other term.[/quote] Here is the basic rule: call people what they want to be called. It's easy to assume that different people have different opinions about what they want to be called, just to make your life difficult or to make you feel bad, but that's not the case.[/quote] I have no problem with different people having different preferences about what they want to be called. That's totally fine and I'm happy to use what they prefer. But our language around race is clearly in flux (and has been for a long time) so they also need to recognize that others of their same group, whatever it is, do not have the same preferences. [b]So best to assume the person not using your preferred term just needs to be told what you prefer, not that what they are using (that some people do prefer) is offensive or disparaging or means that you are racist. [/b]And sometimes, we can't poll the entire group that is going to read a communication so maybe we have to go with what we know at least some people prefer, for today anyway.[/quote] +1,000,000 Very well stated. Sad that it needed to be said.[/quote]
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