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[quote=Anonymous][quote=ZachF][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op are you male or female? [/quote]

Op is a troll. This far into a thread is always a clear and no participation from op means troll. [/quote]Hi, I participated twice and have been dealing with this all day. So sorry I wasn't able to log back on.  He was completely blindsided when I asked him about it. Denied it, I showed him. He said it was his buddy Marc's (who was over last night) not his. He was going crazy and told me that he would have Marc come over and explain it to me.[/quote]

That is some quick backpedaling.  You should have called Marc right then.  Now he has time to beg Marc to take the fall for this and save his ass, when this story makes no sense.  No man is going to let his friend use his e-mail account and computer to sign on to a gay dating site.  There is no reason for Marc to do that.  Marc would logically create his own email address just to use for that site or other down-low activities and use his own damn computer.

But, do let Marc explain this to you and please come back and tell us how that goes.  Ask Marc how your F was supposed to be handling the messages Marc got from the site for him, and why?  Here is a good one.  Ask him to tell you the password to "his" (Marc's) profile on the site and your Fs password for his email.  If he doesn't know either of those, how was he supposed to log in and find a gay guy, check his messages, etc.

I really feel for you and hope it all works out for you no matter how this ends.  I also really hope I'm wrong.

ETA: If the profile disappears then that's a sure sign it's your fiance's profile and he took it down now that you caught him.  Marc would have no reason to take it down.  He's trying to find a man with the help of his really good friend, right?[/quote]

Straight married guy with gay friends and ex-roommates:
I 1000% agree. NONE of my gay friends would have used my computer or phone to browse gay dating websites, let alone use my personal email to register for an account. They are all constantly on their iPhones trolling around for dudes on Grindr and Scruff. It makes zero sense to use my device.

I call BS on your fiance's really bad lie. Also, I question the veracity of anything Marc says.[/quote]

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