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Contrary to what other posters are saying, I feel a lot more inclined to help OP as a clear-headed and calm person than if he were posting all emotional and upset. What good would that do?

And if you're resentful he hasn't immediately morphed into Mr. Perfect Dad, then I can only laugh at you. There are so many threads on DCUM about fathers not doing their job, even though they were married and their kids were planned, that you cannot apply double standards here.

OP will hopefully develop into an attentive father, you have to give him time to navigate the situation. If he has found this forum and can post here calmly asking all these questions and not react to your nasty assumptions, then he has great potential!

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OP straight up said[i] if I decide later that I regret missing out on being a father for this kid, can't I just have more kids and get the parenting experience that way?[/i]  That's way past not morphing into Mr. Perfect, it's sociopathic.

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