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    Tell that ass to go to hell.

If my husband EVER told me I was fat and unattractive I'd lose 180 pounds over night and have him served with divorce papers the next day. What a mean thing your husband did.

Take his shit and find happiness without him. Who the f does he think he is ? God's gift ?

I would never let any man tell me to lose weight. For him. F him.

180 pounds overweight is huge and would take an incredible amount of effort, time and discipline to lose in a healthy manner. You should get off DCUM and get to work, baby.
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I think the poster was saying she'd lose 180 lbs overnight by leaving her 180 lb husband, not that she is 180 lbs overweight.

I think that part of OP's problem is that her husband is extremely self conscious about weight and fitness, and perhaps she reacts in the opposite way on purpose (some people gain under stress, some lose).

OP, its hurtful and the way he said it and whatever else he said also matters (I love you no matter what but I am less attracted to you at this weight versus you disgust me) but if you have put on a lot of weight, that's on you, not him. Perhaps you can get down into a healthy range for yourself. you dont need to be stick thin or work out 8 times a week either.

I'm sorry you feel down. its very painful. [/quote]

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