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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know if this guy is guilty or innocent. But I do know that if I was falsely accused of a crime, and my spouse kicked me out of the house, I wouldn't be coming back. Maybe you had a good reason to suspect he's guilty, but that's definitely a bridge burner. Time to start talking to a divorce lawyer and get ready to be single.[/quote]

I'd have to agree.
That's some cold-hearted shizzle to kick somebody out the house and tell em don't come back until they're cleared.

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NP here. I generally agree with these sentiments EXCEPT that the DH clearly tried to evade telling his wife anything about the incident. If DH had come to DW as soon as he heard that others were getting swabbed and explained what was going on, then I would side with DH. But him deliberately keeping her out of the loop, without explanation? Nope, not having it. [/quote]

It is equally possible that he said nothing because OP has a tendency to assume the worst and freak out.  She would leap to the conclusion that he was guilty and there would be no explanation or discussion possible.

The women here have immediately concluded that at a MINIMUM he cheated.  Without knowing a single fact.  Simply on the basis of what OP has said.[/quote]

That could be the reason for the secrecy. He may believe that he had consensual sex with a women who believes differently, and didn't want OP to know (about the cheating). I'm not sure why else he'd want to keep it a secret. [/quote]

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